Stephen
Covey’s book on trust – 'The Speed of trust’ – is far better than most. However,
the same can’t be said about the 13 behaviours the book says build that trust.
Here they are:
1. Talk Straight
2. Demonstrate Respect
3. Create Transparency
4. Right Wrongs
5. Show Loyalty
6. Deliver Results
7. Get Better
8. Confront Reality
9. Clarify Expectation
10. Practice Accountability
11. Listen First
12. Keep Commitments
13. Extend Trust
Covey and
we, at mext, believe that trust is the most powerful driver of performance. In
our opinion that is, because the ability to trust is so immensely valuable to
our audience – be they employees, customers, the public or corporate
stakeholders.
But we
differ very much in 2 key aspects:
1)
Explaining what trust actually is
Only if we
understand what trust is and how it forms in our minds, how it affects us
physiologically, we can seriously develop recommendations that go beyond
generic statements.
2)
How to analyse and build trust
We are not saying that Covey’s
behaviours don’t impact trust. But they don’t allow for meaningful analysis,
nor do they support anyone in meaningfully and practically building trust.
A few
examples:
1. Talk
Straight
Talk what
straight? Talking the wrong stuff straight is immensely damaging or falls on
deaf trust ears. Talking the right stuff straight is immensely powerful to
building trust.
3. Create
Transparency
Be
transparent with what? As practitioners we see this parroted over and over
again – and leaders merrily creating distrust by being transparent with the
wrong things in the wrong manner.
7. Get
Better
Get better
with what? Golf putting in the office?
12. Keep
Commitments
If you
commit that you will always deliver me the sweetest tasting apples, you can
keep your commitment as much as you want. I will not trust you. In fact, I may
distrust you, because I am much more interested in you paying your workers
fairly and not using insecticides.
Building
trust is not a random collection of behaviours. First and foremost, trust is
about ‘what you can be trusted for’. Is what you can be trusted for appealing to
me and how well can I trust you for these things?
To be able
to build trust leaders need to be able to identify ‘what they need to be
trusted for’. Many trusted leaders intuitively do this well within the context
of what they have to achieve. The majority of us is not that great at it. We
have to learn how to do this – even if we are already quite good at it. That’s
exactly what HuTrust® helps doing. Scientifically correct and practically
proven.
Only when we
know what exactly we need to be trusted for, is it worth looking at how
you can bring these qualities to life through the behaviours like the ones
Covey describes. Only if you can consciously manage trust, you can, for lack of
better words, operationalise trust building on an individual and organisational
level.
Stefan Grafe
is the Managing Director of mext, an internationally operating consultancy that
specialises in performance improvement by building trust. He is the
co-developer of HuTrust®, the only scientifically, statistically and practically
proven approach to analysing and building trust and the author of ‘More trust. More
sales.’, ‘More Trust. More Human Resources’ (out soon) and ‘Boost your work
performance’.
HuTrust® is
globally licensed to leading organisations like Sales Performance specialists,
Huthwaite International, and Global market research company, Psyma.